Stop, you can change the circumstances

Personal crises are extraordinary opportunities to grow and this is possible when we recognize our leading role in such events...

"We are not victims of circumstances, we create our own circumstances.

However, on several occasions we ask ourselves surprised why things happened as they happened and we immediately look for a culprit or responsible to safeguard our irresponsibility.

Of course, there are events resulting from chance beyond our control, such as an earthquake, a storm, an accident in which we were not protagonists: another was driving, a stone fell, lightning, etc., but in most of the Sometimes it is not chance but causation; We ourselves produce that we were fired from work, that our partner abandoned us, that there is no communication with our children among many other situations we are going through and that we believe are inexplicable.

Personal crises are extraordinary opportunities to grow and this is possible when we recognize our leading role in such events, when we have the ability to absorb our own mistakes, when this happens we are victorious from the crisis, adversity becomes good luck, failure to wisdom, the error in light, we are ready to move forward ...



On the contrary, the obstinacy to "be right" blinds us, leads us to make the same mistake again, there are those who of course are surprised by death and were wrong, say goodbye to this world denying that in life no one could To understand, it is nothing more than pride for not taking responsibility for the facts of your life.

It is sad and at the same time wonderful to understand our mistakes, wonderful because the light illuminated us, sad for the time we lost and will never return.

Stop, wonderful and necessary word to assimilate the lessons that life gives us, for this it is essential to be humble, not to resign ourselves to the circumstances that we ourselves have created but to learn what we still have to learn.

How great is the spirit of that human being that is left for life to teach.

Walking through existence while assimilating in his saddlebag the experience that life offers every day, paraphrasing a great writer, perhaps by very few known, the teacher Eric Fromm;

We can all be our own psychiatrists by healing ourselves daily, thanks to the reflection we can extract from each moment the lesson of how to be better"